How much force should one apply when pushing a shidduch? What is considered too much pushing?
But, if you’re going to use, let’s say, deception merely because you want to succeed in making a שידוך, no, no. You can’t do that. You have to watch out. That’s already a dangerous thing to do. But if you know that it’s absolutely a very good בחור or a very good girl, then don’t spare any effort. It’s a מצוה to be a good שליח for הקדוש ברוך הוא.