Q:We believe that shidduchim are made in heaven; so what’s the principle in the gemara that you have to hurry up to find something good because שמא יקדמנו אחר – maybe somebody else might snatch the opportunity away from you (Mo’ed Katan 18b). If it’s ordained, it’s ordained; what’s there to worry about?
Tag: Shidduchim
Rav Avigdor Miller on A Variety of Subjects
Q: Is there anything wrong with patronizing a kosher branch of a treifeh fast food chain. Let’s say a glatt kosher McDonalds or something like that?
Rav Avigdor Miller on The Inexpensive Shidduch
Q:How can a girl get a good shidduch when she can’t afford to get a big talmid chochom?
Rav Avigdor Miller on How to Marry
Q:What would you say to people who claim they want to get married but are very picky and always saying no?
Rav Avigdor Miller on Marrying Before Seminary
Q: Are you opposed to a Bais Yaakov girl going to seminary in Eretz Yisroel?
Rav Avigdor Miller on The Marriage Checklist
Q:What factors should a boy look for in a girl when deciding who to marry?
Rav Avigdor Miller on Marrying a Gi’yores
Q:Based on what the Rav spoke about tonight, about how Avraham Avinu was careful to take a wife for Yitzchok only from his family and not from any of the converts he had made, would the Rav say that it’s proper to avoid being mishadeich with a gi’yores?
Rav Avigdor Miller on Making a Parnasah
Q:The Rav said that he can’t justify people not getting married. But couldn’t it be that there are some people who are just not meant to get married? Like some people who are poor all their lives and wouldn’t be able to support a family anyways?
Rav Avigdor Miller on The Right Time to Propose
Q: How long should I date a girl before proposing?
Rav Avigdor Miller on Marrying for Yichus
Q: How much emphasis should I put on yichus when choosing a shidduch?