Q:If Hashem is the shadchan – He’s the matchmaker and He’s mezaveg zivugim – why should we blame anybody who marries a girl who is no good or if a girl marries a boy who is not good?
Tag: Shidduchim
Rav Avigdor Miller on Serious Dating
Q:How many times should two young people go out before deciding to get serious?
Rav Avigdor Miller on Dating Conversations
Q: What should be the first statement a boy says to a girl on a date?
Rav Avigdor Miller on Why We Don’t Celebrate the 15th of Av
Q:Why don’t we celebrate Chamisha Asar B’Av like we did in the olden days? It says in the Gemara (Taanis 26b, 31a) that on the 15th of Av the unmarried girls would go out to the fields and dance and the men would choose wives.
Rav Avigdor Miller on Taking Advantage of a Ruined Shidduch Date
Q:If a boy takes a girl to dinner for a shidduch and it doesn’t work out, does he have a mitzvah of doing gemilus chasadim because he gave her a free meal?
Rav Avigdor Miller on Dating and Good Middos
Q: How do you know if the boy that you’re dating has good middos?
Rav Avigdor Miller on Fear of Marriage
Q:Why are some people afraid of marriage?
Rav Avigdor Miller on Love At First Sight, Medinas Yisroel and Shaking Hands In The Workplace
Q:Is there such thing as “love at first sight”?
Rav Avigdor Miller on Learning Boys
Q: What should a girl do if a her potential chosson says that he intends to learn forever?
Rav Avigdor Miller on Mothers
Q: A girl who has some extra time, what is preferable if she wants to get close to Hashem? Should she go to a Torah class and learn or should she do extra chesed or maybe kiruv rechokim?